I’m an unapologetic introvert. Don’t get me wrong; I LOVE people and I do love to socialize. I just have to be in the mood for it. Most times I have reservations about going to parties and going out with friends, but most of the time, I always end up enjoying myself.
About a month ago (about a week before Thanksgiving), I got a REALLY bad cold. I took a few days off of work to get better. Being bored at home, I got on A4A to see what was going on there. I had no intention in hooking up because I was really feeling bad and I didn’t really feel like being bothered with anyone. But whether I’m sick or not, I still enjoy looking at naked men and their body parts.
So this one little 19 year old hits me up 
. We make small talk. After a while, I figure out who the guy is. (I live in a small town in Alabama; The gay population is VERY small here). I never met him in person, but I know his roommates. So, I let the guy know that I know who he is. His roommates are cool, so I figured he would be too. Anyway, this guy is wanting to hook up, but I tell him I am sick and not feeling well. He keeps pressing the issue about hooking up. I told him I didn’t want to spread my germs. He said he’d come suck my dick to make me feel better. Who am I to turn down head? Maybe it will make me feel better. 
So we exchange pix. He’s not a bad looking dude. He said that he would be right over after work. Mind you, the time is around the afternoon. So, he’s coming here right after work; which means, he hasn’t had time to freshen up. Also, I’m not feeling well. I hope he isn’t looking for any reciprocation. 
I can understand someone having an oral fixation. I have one. I’ve hooked up with dudes with me strictly sucking their dick, and I was ok with that; especially when they had a nice piece. 
So I figured the guy was just after sucking some dick and that’s it.
So he comes over; we chit chat for a bit. Me feeling miserable wanted to get this over with. I lead him to the bed room, dropped my pants, and he gets to work. His head game is lackluster at best, but he got me off. So I get up and clean up and we move back to the living room. Chatted some more and then he left.
A few days later, one of his roommates came over (I messed with him before; that’s a whole different story that I may share). We talked for a bit and then he mentioned me and duded hooking up. He said that dude was disappointed he didn’t get anything out of it. Ok, first of all, who wants to hook up with someone who is sick?!? Ok, one, that is NASTY! Two, you were the horny one. You did your thing so get over it. I’m not pressed. I’m a grown ass man, thanks!
So anyway, that’s not the part where why I’m asking, “Was I wrong for that.”
A few weeks later, I get a text; A FREAKING TEXT message from him asking if he could stay with me for the weekend. One of his roommates parents were coming into town and were going to be staying at their apartment for the weekend. I text him back and said, “I don’t think so.” He replied, “Man, why not?” I then told him, “Man, I don’t know you.” Then he was like, “Whatever…”
Now mind you, I was pissed… PISSED, that he TEXTED me asking to stay with me. Asking something like that, nikka you BETTER call me and ask. Second, I met this dude, one time, and he wants to stay with me for the weekend?!!? Hell no! I’m not as trusting as I use to be and I got burned in the past and I’m not up for history repeating itself. I don’t feel like I was wrong for that, but obviously he disagreed. What we did, was what it was at the time; a sorry hook up. Forget about it and move along. I did.
Tags: friends, head, hooking up, Men, Sex
Well I could tell this post was going downhill as soon as you mentioned ‘a4a.’ LOL.
Yea that is weird to wanna hook up with someone when they’re sick… for all they know you could have had H1N1!