When I meet new guys be it in real life or online, I have a set of flags that I monitor that go up depending on what the other person says or do. There are green, yellow and red flags. Green is of course good. Yellow means warning or caution and red means, Uh oh. 
So this one guy hits me up on a certain social website that caters to a certain group of men. He’s a nice looking guy; I can dig him. He posts a message on my “wall” stating that he wants me to send him a message. But he ends up sending a private message first. In the message he complements me and sends me his number and tells me to call anytime.
So it’s Sunday morning and I call. No answer, but I left a voicemail telling the guy who I am. About 30 to 45 minutes later I get a text from him that says, “Good Morning! Who is this?” I was like, “WHAT THE FUCK!? What the fuck did I leave a fucking voicemail for?” A red flag went up. I was angry, HOT! An hour later, I texted him back, “this is [insert social networking website handle here] from [insert said social networking website].” Then TWO hours later he responds. I didn’t. Then TWO hours after that he asks what my name is. I can maybe understand that the first two to three hours he might have been in church or busy, but in the matter of about 3 hours, you should have listened to the voicemail by now.
So far this dude has struck out with me. Listen to your fucking voicemail!
#thatisall
Tags: communication, love, Men